Free Live Masterclass · [DAY, MONTH DATE] · [TIME] ET on Zoom
Free Live Masterclass with Dee Collins, MSN, FNP-C
Maybe it's not the other people.
Maybe it's your pattern.
Maybe it's not the other people. Maybe it's the pattern.
Different relationships. Same Disappointment.
A free live masterclass for single professionals over 40 who keep repeating patterns in love. Discover the Attraction Zone™ you’re being pulled into—and why finding a different person isn’t enough if you keep getting pulled into the same dating dynamics.
100% Free · 60–90 Minutes · For Single Professionals 40+
MSN, FNP-C
Decades in Healthcare
Two Divorces
A Personal Journey to Understanding My Own Choices
12+ Years
Researching Attraction and Relationship Patterns
Author
Romantic Relationship Pattern Theory™
Does This Sound Familiar?
You thought this time would be different. So why does the ending feel so familiar?
You can run a business, raise children, and solve complicated problems for a living. And still wonder why dating keeps delivering the same disappointing experience.
Ignoring warning signs because the chemistry is strong
Choosing someone who looks perfect on paper but lacks real intimacy
Pursuing people who won't fully choose you
Carrying too much of the relationship, or waiting on someone's potential
Staying in ambiguity, hoping it turns into something
You've done the therapy, read the books, maybe even know your "type." And the last relationship still ended the way they always do.
You may recognize yourself in more than one of these. Join us to discover what keeps pulling you back in.
Different people.
Same disappointment.
Maybe it's not bad luck, the apps, or "all the good ones are taken." Maybe it's not the other people. Maybe it's the pattern.
What you'll discover
01
The Dating App Hamster Wheel™
Why people change partners again and again, while the emotional pattern quietly stays the same.
02
Attraction happens fast. Evidence takes time.
Why chemistry can feel like proof, and why compatibility is the new chemistry.
03
Words vs. evidence
Why someone wanting a relationship doesn't mean they're capable of building one, and what to pay attention to instead.
04
Awareness vs. real change
Why knowing why you do something isn't the same as responding differently when your heart is involved, and where real change becomes possible.
05 · The Pull Behind Your Choices
Your Attraction Zone
Discover the Attraction Zone you’re being pulled into—and how it may be influencing who you choose and what keeps pulling you into it
Your Host
She didn't build this because dating came easily.
Your Host
She didn't build this because dating came easily.
After two divorces and years of dating, I realized I was stuck in a frustrating loop. I wasn’t just choosing the wrong people. I was repeating the same cycles with every new person.
After several years of research, I finally found a practical way to move beyond the emotional baggage and break those patterns. It helped me stop wasting my time on the wrong choices and my energy on the wrong people—and instantly recognize the potential for lasting romance with greater clarity.
Now I’m on a mission to help other men and women over 40 who are stuck on the dating app hamster wheel break through their own patterns and learn to date more efficiently, confidently, and intentionally.
Your heart is my priority.
Dee Collins
Founder, The Dating Analyst™
Dee founded The Dating Analyst™ and developed Romantic Relationship Pattern Theory™, a framework informed by a synthesis of established psychological theories and research on attachment, attraction, and relationship behavior. It offers a thoughtful lens for understanding recurring romantic patterns and making more intentional choices.
Created for accomplished single adults over 40, The Dating Analyst™ helps individuals deepen their self-awareness, strengthen their standards, and pursue relationships aligned with their values and vision for life.
Her free masterclass, “Why Do You Choose Who You Choose?” introduces this perspective and invites a more intentional approach to lasting love.
Is This For You?
Built for accomplished adults ready to choose differently
This is for you if…
You're a single professional over 40, man or woman
You're divorced, never married, dating again, or taking a break
You keep meeting different people but landing in familiar endings
You're open to looking at your own choices with curiosity, not blame
You want a loving, aligned relationship and you're willing to practice
This isn't for you if…
You want texting tricks or ways to make someone chase you
You're looking for a guaranteed partner or a timeline
You want to diagnose your ex
You need therapy, couples counseling, or crisis support
Before You Register
Questions you might be asking
Is this therapy?
No. The Dating Analyst™ is relationship education and personal development. It isn't therapy, diagnosis, or trauma treatment, and you won't be asked to dig up your childhood. The focus is your romantic patterns and the choices you can influence now.
I've already done therapy and read all the books. Is this for me?
Insight matters. But knowing why you do something isn't always the same as choosing differently when your heart is involved. This masterclass is about that gap.
What if I'm not dating anyone right now?
This is still for you. Recognizing your pattern before you meet someone is one of the best times to do it.
Is this just for women?
No. This masterclass is for single men and women over 40 who keep finding themselves in relationships with familiar challenges or disappointing endings—and want to understand what keeps pulling them into the same dynamics.
Is it really free?
Yes. The masterclass is free and live on Zoom. Register to save your seat and get the link.
Free Live Masterclass · [DAY, MONTH DATE] · [TIME] ET
Save your seat for
"Why Do You Choose Who You Choose?"
Why different people can leave you with the same relationship frustrations.
What makes certain connections so hard to walk away from—even when your needs aren’t being met.
Discover the Attraction Zone™ you’re being pulled into—and what you may have overlooked.
Why knowing better doesn’t always translate into choosing differently when your heart is involved.
Your next chapter can begin with a new understanding of what draws you in.
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This free masterclass is for educational purposes only. The Dating Analyst™ provides relationship education and personal development. It is not therapy, counseling, diagnosis, or trauma treatment, and is not a substitute for professional mental health care. Romantic Relationship Pattern Theory™ is a proprietary, evidence-informed framework. It has not been clinically validated or endorsed by the researchers whose work informs it. Individual experiences vary, and no specific relationship outcome, partner, or timeline is promised or guaranteed.